Wanita Adalah Fitnah Dunia!!

Assalamualaikum,

Right now i'm reading a book entitled 'Tautan Hati' by Fatimah Syarha but i'm not finish yet since sem 1 actually.

It just the right book for you, girlS! An islamic book, giving you ways to handle many situations that you have to face everyday. So, do borrow it from SAYABUDAKBAEK ;p

For this entry,i will not explain about the novel as u have to read it by yourselves. but i'll remind you about this....

WANITA ADALAH FITNAH DUNIA.

I saw you as a Mujahid.
I saw you as a Mujahidah.
you are so worth, my dearest friends.

You are so generous
when you're willing to help the orphans.
you like to do charity
and your face will lighten up when you help them
i like that in you.
You're like the truth mujahid/ah.
Like Abdu Rahman bin Auf in generosity
Like Fatimah Az-zahra in kindness

You're thirst of knowledge,
you read a lot of books
full of variety, either haraki books or motivation books
You search friends to guide you,
and you like to share your knowledge to others
Subhanallah!
Can't you see your good deeds flow continuously until akhirah?
You're like the truth mujahid/ah
Like Ali bin Abu Talib, the key of knowledge for Islam.
Just like Aisyah bintu Abu Bakr, the ilmu lover.

You're such a lover,
You love other creatures
And you taking care of them
Have'nt you heard a prostitute was promised to go to heaven after she help a thirsty dog?
Subhanallah!
You're like a mujahid/ah should be,
Like Abu Hurairah, the perawi hadith@ the cat lover,
Just like Khadijah Khuwailid, the flower's lover.

You love beauty
You love tidiness
You are perfectionist and you love cleanliness
MashaAllah!!
You've already show the beauty of Islam!
You could be a great daie to others
Just like Rasulullah who love cleanliness
Like Khadijah Khuwailid, the best housewife ever!

And you are so soft-hearted,
so polite and love to smile,
I like that in you,
Like Uthman Bin Affan,
The most polite sahabat in Rasulullah's time
I'm sure if your politeness and soft-heart could be trained,
you'll be a great mujahid/ah my dearest friends

but please my friends,
All these are not enough for you to be the truth one,
You forget your aurah,
You show them to ajnabi easily.
You forgot your 'niat' when you go here,
You play around,
You have a magnificient akhlak but,
You lose to the laknatullah,
You follow them to do munkar although you know Allah see you
The says: Wanita adalah fitnah dunia
The one that lead Ali bin Abu Talib's figure in you vanish bit by bit
The one that lead you to be look down by others
Have you forgotten it?
Or do you actually ignored it?

Please don't repeat it again my dearest friends
Have'nt you forgot Ibnu Sina whose learn medic as early as 15 years old?
and he become The Doctor for Sultan at 17 years old
and his book about medic has been used for about 700 years worldwide!
Dont play around my friends,
Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh conquer Constantinople as early as 17 years old,
You're so worth but dont mix it with maksiat
where is Aisyah Abu Bakr that i saw in you before?
where is Ali bin Abu Talib in you?
where are the mujahid/ah figure's that i saw in you before?

Seriously, i saw some of you have changed.

Or you have mix it with maksiat
Please dont blind/block your mind.
Actually i dont intend to write this
But i think someone must remind you

As seriously, i saw you have changed.

*This one i dedicated to all my MSU-Mara friends =D
Firman ALLAH SWT:- "HAI ANAK ADAM PERIHARALAH DIRI KAMU SERTA AHLIMU DARI API NERAKA DI MANA BAHAN PEMBAKARNYA IALAH MANUSIA,JIN DAN BATU-BATU..."

Selamat 16 may!!!

Salam again!!

Harini just nak wish...

SELAMAT HARI GURU!!!



kepada semua guru yang mengajar saya dari kecik sampai besar,, especially cekgu2 Pasti Hidayah, SR Ibnu Khaldun, SK/SRA Jalan Kebun, SAMT Hishamuddin
(wlau sekejap cume), SMKA Kuala Selangor, SMAP Kajang n last but not least stakat ni kepada lecturer2 CFS, MSU, yang mengajar saya scr official..

ustazah ARIZA, ustazah HALIMAH, mdam BAHYAH, cekgu RAFIDAH, cekgu NATRAH and byk lagi..

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!

for all ur effort, ur patient,and ur guidance until i become who i am today...



AND

kepada yang x official juga, SITI KHADIJAH BT MAZLI, RAIHANA NAZRI, SYAER SYAHIRA, SITI HAJAR CHE ISMAIL,, n byk lagi sbnarnye..tpi x tertulis....

SYUKRAN KATHIR TO YOU GUYS TOO!!!!

for ur support and ur knowledge..
Ur role as my friends and teachers will not be forgotten forever..TQ!!!

and lastly nak wish birthday kat SHIMAH, SYARAH, .......

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KE 19!!!!

MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALWAYS!!!

Be grow up now as u're 19. Enjoy ur life in redo Allah k!
ukhuwwah fillah ;p

ok, dats all...


5' tataat 3'

The Mystery of MJ

Salam!!!

this one i got from Husnaa.. thank you so much!! hehe

Allahuyubariku fik~

Michael Jackson (MJ) adalah seorang manusia yang sangat penyayang. Banyak hartanya yang telah dihabiskan dalam membantu dan menyokong gerakan-gerakan amal seperti Afrika Amerika, mangsa AIDS, mangsa dera kanak-kanak dan bermacam-macam lagi. Walaupun dah berbuat pelbagai kebaikan, MJ masih gagal mencari ketenangan hati. Dia cumalah seorang budak yang terperangkap di dalam badan seorang lelaki. Impiannya adalah untuk menjadi budak kecil selama-lamanya. Impian ini ditambah pula dengan sejarahnya didera semasa kecil menyebabkan dia membina Neverland, tempat untuk seluruh kanak-kanak di dunia bermain dan gembira di situ.

Sila baca artikel ini sepenuhnya untuk membaca tentang konspirasi pembunuhan Michael Jackson.Namun MJ telah membuat satu keputusan yang bakal memberikan impak yang sangat besar di dalam hidupnya. Melihat kehidupan dan ketenangan yang dimiliki oleh abangnya (Jermaine) setelah memeluk Islam, MJ telah membuat satu kenyataan gempar di satu press conference pada tahun 1989.

“Saya telah melihat Islam di dalam abang saya, saya telah membaca buku tentang Islam dan suatu hari nanti saya mahu rasakan ketenangan dan keamanan Islam itu“.


Sejak kenyataan itu hidup MJ tidak sama seperti dahulu lagi. Dituduh berasmara dengan kanak-kanak, ditambah dengan pandangan-pandangan negatif daripada media Amerika Syarikat, membuatkan MJ berada di tahap tertekan. Semua ini dilakukan agar peminat-peminat MJ melihatnya sebagai satu ikon yang gagal seterusnya membuatkan influence MJ berkurangan.


Melarikan diri daripada tekanan pihak Media USA, MJ telah tinggal di England selama beberapa tahun. Di England, MJ berkawan rapat dengan Yusof Islam, Dari Yusof Islam, MJ belajar serba sedikit tentang Islam. Malah semasa di England, MJ telah berkawan rapat dengan seorang pencipta lagu, Zain Bhika yang telah menciptakan lagu “Give Thanks To Allah” khas untuk dinyanyikan oleh MJ bila-bila masa dia bersedia.


Semasa kes asmaranya dengan kanak-kanak dijalankan, MJ telah melarikan diri dan menetap di Bahrain. Di sana dia menjadi tetamu khas kepada anak Sultan Bahrain. Di sinilah MJ mula mendalami Islam. MJ belajar sembahyang, baca Al-Quran dan macam-macam lagi selama 3 tahun.


Akhirnya pada November 2008, MJ pulang ke Los Angeles dan membuat majlis memeluk Islam secara rasmi di rumah kawan karibnya. Pada December 2008, MJ telah pun pergi menunaikan haji bersama Sultan Bahrain dan anaknya.


Untuk konsert terakhirnya, MJ mempunyai agenda yang tersendiri. Dia memaklumkan yang ini adalah konsert terakhirnya dan berhasrat untuk mengumumkan yang dia adalah seorang Muslim. Malah MJ juga mahu menyanyikan lagu Give Thanks to Allah pada konsertnya tersebut bersama Yusof Islam. Sebab itulah MJ memilih London sebagai tempat konsert terakhirnya bukannya di USA kerana takutkan pihak berkuasa USA.


Pada 12.30 25 June, MJ memeluk managernya dan mengucapkan selamat malam. MJ berkata ” Selepas berlatih selama 2 bulan akhirnya saya dah bersedia untuk konsert ini”. Selepas melambaikan tangan dan mengucapkan selamat malam, MJ pun pulang ke hotel. Tapi kira-kira jam 2.26 pagi, MJ didapat telah meninggal dunia.


Semasa 911 dihubungi, banyak soalan yang ditanya seolah-olah mereka tak tahu siapa itu MJ dan di mana MJ berada. Nampaknya ada pihak yang cuba melengahkan masa bantuan tiba. Tambah pelik bila pihak hospital mengatakan hasil autopsy hanya boleh diperolehi selepas 2 bulan sedangkan teknologi sekarang dah bertambah canggih.


Oleh kerana itu, keluarga MJ telah pun mengupah private doktor untuk membuat autopsy kepada MJ. Keputusannya dikeluarkan hanya selepas 4 hari. Ternyata MJ mati kerana terlalu banyak dos anaethestic, satu ubat yang mampu membuatkan jantung berhenti berdenyuti jika diambil secara berlebihan.


Satu keputusan yang tidak diwar-warkan di media ialah perut MJ tidak mempunyai langsung ubat ini. Tapi darahnya dipenuhi dengan ubat tersebut. Malah badan MJ dipenuhi dengan kesan suntikan seolah-olah ada orang secara paksa menyuntik ubat tersebut ke dalam badan MJ.


Dalam CNN semasa diinterview, Presiden Amerika Syarikat Barrack Obama telah mengeluarkan satu kenyataan yang agak pelik.


“Saya suka MJ. Saya membesar mendengar lagunya. Ia satu kehilangan yang besar tapi saya jamin tiada konspirasi dalam kematiannya”.


Pelik kenapa seorang Presiden beria-beria cakap tiada konspirasi dalam kematian MJ sebelum keputusan rasmi autopsy MJ dikeluarkan? Kalau betullah MJ nak bunuh diri, buat apa dia beria-beria nak berlatih selama 2 bulan untuk konsert dia nie? Tak gitu?


Keluarga MJ inginkan MJ dikebumikan secara Islam. Tapi CIA telah muncul dan memberi ugutan jika pengebumian secara Islam dilakukan secara awan (dalam TV). Ugutannya ialah Katherine, mak MJ tidak akan mendapat hak penjagaan anak-anak MJ sebaliknya Debbie Rowe yang akan dapat.


Akhirnya mereka bersetuju untuk MJ dikebumikan secara Islam di Neverland. Tapi dengan syarat satu pengebumian olok-olok secara Kristian mesti diadakan. Itulah yang anda semua tengok di Tv. Sebab itulah keranda MJ ditutup dan tak dibukak. Sebab mayatnya tak pernah ada dalam tue. Ini semua dilakukan semata-mata nak bagitau dunia yang kononnya MJ bukan seorang Islam.

Syaitan Baik

Salam, again.

I've nothing to say for my new entry,but

May this will remind us a bit.

I heard before, islam will grow and become much stronger if its ummah can solat subuh berjemaah. WOW!!! At that time, they say that the makmums are as much as during solat jumaat. Kids, teenagers, adult, and old men.. all of them are gathering to perform solah in jemaah. Its not easy to be done especially during subuh. People need some kind of burning desire to wake up early in the morning to pray solat subuh.[huhu, i said this to remind myself too..istaiqozee minan naumi mubakkiran, eyzzah!!!! ].. hurm, when will this may happend?



"Buat renungan bersama.


Kisah ini , tak pasti semasa zaman Nabi s.a.w atau para sahabat.

Ada seorang buta yang rajin solat berjemaah di masjid. Ada tali yang di buat untuk menghubungkan rumahnya dan masjid. Antara rumah dan masjid ada satu lubang yang berair.

Suatu hari, dia terjatuh kedalam lubang tersebut dan beliau berpatah balik, untuk salin baju yang bersih. Kali kedua, dia terjatuh lagi dan balik semula untuk bersalin baju. Kali ketiga, di rasa nak terjatuh lagi tetapi tiba-tiba ada orang yang menyambut untuk menahannya dari jatuh dan
memimpinnya hingga sampai ke masjid. Beliau bertanya kepada orang tersebut, siapakah dia? Orang itu menjawab Aku adalah syaitan?

Orang buta itu terkejut lalu bertanya. Kenapa dia menolongnya dari jatuh ke dalam lubang tersebut.
Syaitan menjawab. Aku menolong sebab aku takut dosa orang-orang Islam lain terampun. Ini kerana semasa engkau terjatuh kali pertama, dosamu Allah ampunkan, semasa engkau jatuh kali kedua, seluruh dosa ahli keluargamu diampunkan, dan jika aku biarkan engkau jatuh kali ketiga maka seluruh dosa umat Islam akan terampun.

Sebab itu aku menolongmu.

Lihatlah dan fikirkanlah betapa besarnya pahala orang yang melangkah ke masjid atau surau, itu belum ditambah dengan pahala mengerjakan solat berjemaah. Orang yang buta pun sanggup bersusah payah untuk solat berjemaah di masjid, inikan pula kita yang sihat walafiat tanpa ada sebarang halangan kecuali halangan nafsu yang sering
memujuk kita untuk terus malas dalam menambah
pahala untuk bekalan ke akhirat, kehidupan yang
lebih kekal....

WOW!!! MUHAMMAD!!!

ASSALAMUALAIKUM Friends...

First of all,
let us istighfar for a moment and send many2 prayers to Muhammad Adib, my ex-classmate. He is coma right now and hopefully he recovers soon...be tough my friend, Ya Allah, please help him to be tough. please 20000x!!!
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ermmm......and for my new entry,


WOW!!! Muhammad!!! im very2 impress of you!!!!

From 'How to Win Friends and Influence people' by Dale Carnegie then to 'Khadijah -Kisah cinta sejati Rasullullah s.a.w', i discovered that all in all, our prophet Muhammad had been practicing 'How to win friends and influence people' in his DAILY LIFE!!! Subhanallah!!!

[Well, i supposed Dale Carnegie should make Rasullullah as his example, not Franklin D. Roosevelt or George W Bush!!!]

Firstly, Dale Carnegie stated that to take someone attention, you must show your concern about that person first. Same goes to the saying ' love others first then others will love you too' [something like that]. Well, for a clearer view, when you look at a picture, who are you searching for at first glance?? Of course, you search for your own figure, or your face!!!..hehe...

so, that tells us that, people are only interest in themselves. They love to talk about themselves. Try to remember, in your talk... you will use the word 'i' the most.If you received a phone call, you would prefer to say "i like this...i want...i took...i..and i....'

Believed it or not, the survey has been done, and most of people like to talk about themselves. dont you agreed??

so, to attract people, you should first talk about themselves- i mean, their interest, their hobby, their family or things that they feel proud of.

Dale Carnegie has done the survey and he gave a good example too. [ i will search the example later ]..And also, when you are leading someone to talk about his/her self, you have to bear with it. i mean, you need to be a good listener. Body straight and you hear them sincerely, your mind must in his/her talk- to show that you hear them sincerely.. with that attitude, you are not only can please him/her, you also can easily attract him/her to you..it is as simple as that..

with this attitude also, Rasulullah had attracted Khadijah to him.hehe..
As you guys knew, Khadijah was searching for a man to handle her business to Syam. She tried hard to find the best man, with the best akhlak, the one that she could believed to take care of her money and business. can you imagine? At that time, most of the guy are jahil, like to berfoya-foya and its hard to find a good one.So at that time, people in the city were talking about Muhammad ibnu Abdillah, a man with the best akhlak, the best sincerity.[he fullfill all Khadijah's criteria for her business.] So, Khadijah called for Him. Muhammad agreed to meet her and the meeting went well...

Dalam perbincangan itu, Khadijah menangkap kesan bahawa Muhammad merupakan seorg pemuda cergas,santun, pandai menjaga diri, dan berpenampilan sempurna. Muhammad kelihatan tenang ketika diam dan kelihatan berpengaruh ketika berbicara.Dia selalu memperhatikan orang yang berbicara dengannya, memperdengarkannya dengan teliti, dan tidak pernah memperlihatkan sikap sambil lewa.{all the characteristics that we have discussed just now}

Then, what happened to Khadijah??

She was not only agreed to choose Muhammad as her representative of her business [ imagine you are chosen by a BIG COMPANY to handle their business in somewhere!!! WOW!!!]. She also……ehemehem.. had fell in love with Him!!. So, this tells us that, being a good listener and talk about someone interest could attract people to you! Above all, this also prove us that OUR PROPHET, Muhammad had practicing to be what Dale Carnegie surveyed, for the last thousands of years ago! Subhanallah!!


Secondly, Dale Canergie stated, when you want a person agree with your statement, please have them saying ' yes...yes.. first'. For example, you want to say that 'Nasi Goreng at Kedai Ceria sedap and at Nor Hakeem tak sedap..haha'. You would never get others approval if you criticize Nor Hakeem clearly, directly. This will hurt other person's pride or his/her faith [for those who really on Nor Hakeem side].And for your information, once you hurt their stand, opinion you would never get their approval even what have you said are the truth..For example, if you said," Hey, your driving skill ARE BAD!!!!" Of course that person would never agreed! " hey, i got my license well!! and the instructor never say me WRONG!!!! [ even he truly has a bad skill.] So back to our argument, how to influence them [those who on Nor Hakeem side]?

its easy, try to get them saying yes at first..

Hakeem: i wanna eat nasi goreng today!
Ceria: o0o,so..you like to eat in a healthy way ,right?
Hakeem: yes {1}, that true. My mom always remind me to eat in a good diet.and a loot of vegetable.hehe
Ceria: oh, your mom is so great!
hakeem: YES!!{2} indeed, she is a great person!!
Ceria: So, dont you want to eat nasi goreng with a lot of vegetable here?
Hakeem: nak {3}..where?
Ceria: you can eat at ceria!!
Hakeem: but it cost me more!
Ceria: yes, but dont your mom would prefer you to eat a healthy food?
Hakeem: owh, well. I guess, i eat at ceria today.
Ceria: [haha..yes!!]

{}- refer to Hakeem agreed to ceria ;p

So, that was my little example. Then, how our prophet influence other person in his dakwah? He was not only using these techniques long years ago, he was also good at it!!!

At that time, Muhammad was in a great danger in Mekah. All Quraisy was attacking Him, trying to tell Him wrong. That Latta and Uzza were the Great and not Allah. How come Allah can handle this world by Himself? [They just couldn’t get the idea]. So they always send their people to argue with Muhammad.

Mereka kemudian pergi he Hushayn ibnu Ubaid ibnu Khalaf al-Khizami, seorang lelaki yang dihormati di tengah-tengah kaumnya.

Hushayn memiliki seorang anak bernama Imran. Saat itu, Imran telah manjadi pemeluk Islam yang taat. Dia sering berkumpul bersama kaum muslimin lainnya di rumah Khadijah untuk menerima ajaran-ajaran tentang Islam dari Rasulullah.

Para pembesar Quraisy mengadu penghinaan yang dilakukan Muhammad atas agama leluhur mereka kepada Hushayn. Hushayn sepakat untuk pergi menemui Rasulullah, sementara mereka menunggu di rumah beliau.

Rasulullah menerima kedatangan Hushayn dengan ramah. Beliau memerintahkan sahabat-sahabatnya untuk memberikannya tempat duduk. Lalu berlangsunglah perbincangan antara keduanya.


Hushayn: Benarkah yang kudengar bahawa engkau menghina Tuhan-Tuhan kami?
Rasul: Wahai Hushayn, berapa tuhankah yang engkau sembah saat ini?
Hushayn: 7 – 6 di bumi, 1 di langit
Rasul: Tuhan mana yang engkau sembah dan engkau mintai pertolongan?
Hushayn: Yang di langit
Rasul: Jika engkau tertimpa bahaya, tuhan mana yang engkau seru?
Hushayn: Yang di langit
Rasul: Jika hartamu hilang, tuhan mana yang engkau pinta untuk mengembalikannya?
Hushayn: Yang di langit.
Rasul: Wahai Hushayn, hanya tuhan di langit itu yang mengabulkan permohonanmu. Lalu, mengapa engkau menyekutukannya dengan tuhan-tuhan yang lain? Peluklah agama Islam, wahai Hushayn, nescaya engkau akan selamat.Jika engkau masuk Islam, akan kuajarkan kepadamu dua kalimat yang mendatangkan manfaat bagimu..


Then, what happened to Hushayn?

Of course, he embraced Islam directly after that. Muhammad got Hushayn agreed with his statement for several times before stating the truth. In that way, he would never hurt Hushayn's pride or faith on that matter. So, Hushayn can easily agreed with Muhammad and embraced Islam!!

So that is how Muhammad got his influence. Muhammad has practiced what Dale Carnegie stated thousand years after that!!! Subhanallah!!

I really want to state more, but humph… I forgot them already. May this little share could bring benefits to you in the future!!!

Wailal liqa’!!!

SPEED READING

Salam again!


Last time i have promised someone to ‘copy n paste’ from an e-book entitled ‘LEARN MORE AND STUDY LESS’. Its about holistic learning, a way of genius students’ applied in their study at most.

Now, a good beginning for a premedic student, is to let you know how to speed reading. It brings you a lot of benefits, insyaAllah..


Read the following words:

“I am. I am. I am. I am. I am. I am.”


What is the point of reading all these words? There is a lot of redundancy as many
words are repeated. You could have simply read: “I am. x6“ and that would have
contained exactly the same information.

Reading requires that you consume the purest information possible. Simplicity means you acquire the information with the lowest amount of redundancy.



Speed Reading

If you can read faster, you can acquire more information. That’s just common
sense. But speed reading is more than just speed. Simply trying to read faster usually
results in lost comprehension. But by practicing with different reading techniques and
changing how you read, you can read faster with better understanding.
Speed reading could easily be divided up into enough techniques to fill another
entire book (and indeed it has: Breakthrough Rapid Reading is one of my favorites).
But I’m going to focus on three main sub-techniques you might want to try:

1) Using a pointer.
2) Practice reading.
3) Active reading.


Using a Pointer

Your eye doesn’t actually stay in one place on the page as you read. Instead, it
constantly makes tiny movements that slow your reading speed. Using a pointer can improve your reading rate simply by focusing your eye onto one part of the page–the part you want to read. A pointer has the added benefit of allowing you to control your speed by changing the speed you move the pointer. Speed reading involves more than just reading fast, as sometimes you will want to slow down to carefully examine one section, and skim over another that is less important. To start using a pointer, grab a book and place your index finger right below the line you want to read. Move it across the line as you read before going to the next line.

Although some speed reading experts advocate using a pointer everywhere, I tend to
only use it for books. Online articles and short sections of print don’t usually benefit
from the extra control a pointer offers.
Using a pointer will feel uncomfortable for the first two weeks. Until you get into
the habit of reading with a pointer it will probably seem slow and awkward. However,
once you adapt to using your finger to scroll through the page, it will make sense. The
extra control and focus it provides when reading is invaluable to boost your reading rate


Practice Reading

Another aspect of speed reading is practice reading. Practice reading isn’t the same
as reading in the same way jogging on the spot isn’t running. When you practice read,
you expect to absorb almost none of the material you are reading. The only purpose of
practice reading is to train yourself to comprehend at a faster rate.

1) You can practice read by getting a book you haven’t read before. Mark a point
in the book and set a timer for three minutes. Then read through the book (with your
pointer) slightly faster than you can understand all of the material. When the timer
goes off, mark the line you finished on.

2) Count the number of lines you read and multiply that by the average words per
line on the first paragraph and divide by three. This should give you your approximate
words per minute (assuming you read for three minutes).

3) This exercise can test your flexibility with improving your speed of reading.
Another exercise is directed towards improving your comprehension. Similar to
the above exercise, read for three minutes using your pointer. When you are
completed, start a paper writing down every major or important idea you read in the last three minutes (without looking back at the book).Write as many ideas as you can think of that come directly from the book.
Next,go through the book again and make a second list of important ideas. Take the number of ideas you correctly wrote down after the three minute session and subtract the ones you remembered incorrectly. Then divide this number by the total meaningful ideas
you gathered in your more detailed search.





Active Reading

Although I’m grouping active reading under the category of speed reading, it could
be described as the opposite of speed reading. Active reading slows down your reading
rate while greatly increasing your comprehension ability. Active reading goes beyond
simply highlighting your textbook and writing small notes in the margins, but fully
integrating ideas as they hit you.

To start active reading, begin with your book and a notepad. On the notepad write
the heading for the chapter and any subheadings for the section you are reading. After
finishing reading a subsection (using your pointer!), turn to your notepad and make a
few notes.
During your active reading you should note down:

1) What the major points are from the section.
2) How I can remember the major points from the section.
3) How I can extend or apply the major points from this section.


The first question simply gets you to acquire the information fully. The second
question forces you to link, visualize or metaphor the information. The third question
gets you to move beyond this and apply the information in a different context. These
three questions force you to move each major point through the understanding, explore
and finally application phase of holistic learning.

For example, let’s say I just finished reading a chapter in psychology about classical
conditioning. The major points might be:

- Discovered by Ivan Pavlov
- Connects a stimulus with a response


I might remember this by:
- Picturing Pavlov’s dogs which drooled at the sound of a bell.

I might extend this by:
- Remembering how I feel compelled to answer the phone if I hear a similar
ringtone on a television program.


Dats it...so i hope you can apply this method soon.

Actually, you need to practice every day for 15 minutes per day for about 2 months...so that, you form the habit
well, then you can apply it naturally in your study.

Good luck then!!!

26 March 2010

Bang Ayman,,sorry


Friday,26 march 2010..

Misscalled –Abah: 2.15am
Incoming call-Abah :2.16 am
Called-Abah: 2.18 am


Shimah: Eyzzah,bangun..ada call

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1.00pm


It was a bright sunny day on Friday evening, about a week after my 19th birthday. I was in a very quiet room, staring at her.Then something said to me

Watch her eyzzah..
As you are a doctor-to-be,seize that moment please!

Watch her eyzzah
As you have to learn someday, how to take someone bath

Watch her eyzzah
As you stared at her stiff body, unmoved only covered with a piece of kain batik

Watch her eyzzah
As you saw her son rub her face gently,lovingly... while water was running
everywhere on her body
And faiz also help rubbing her,but me?

Watch her eyzzah
While some makcik said “ gi tubik nu, tak leh wat kijo kalu ramai2 orang dalam bilek nih”

(But i still standing at a corner there ,ignoring the makcik)

Watch her eyzzah.....
As i saw her calm face,so fresh and full of tranquility

While my tears running down heavily.hand on mouth..(cant believe my eyes actually)..and i can do nothing but standing and staring.


A 4-year-old boy,looking at me..with his round eyes,like asking me “bakpo akak ni jerit?”


‘huh, apa tengok2?! Gi la main jaoh2’ (of course i only monologed)


I watched the process,from taking her bath until ‘kaffan’ing her. And i know now, how to handle this

Her son was so loyal.he involved in everything until she saved buried at tanah perkuburan islam teluk bayu.

She saved now abang ayman.i dont know how to tell you this but


Her son= Abah
She/her = mak tok....


Inna lillah hi wa inna illaihi raji’uun..........







Tok cik said that 2 weeks ago she dreamed almost every day about tok ayah,sleeping beside her at night then asking her to come with him.She said ‘ nanti la dulu..x sempat nak jumpa anak-beranak lagi’. But tok ayah replied ‘ tak yoh la jumpa,,ikut je la’. But she still continued her routine for 2 weeks before she really2 following him. Tok cik said, every day..she ate at tok cik’s house. She said ‘bakpo kalu ada adek beradek tapi x jumpa’..and she dont have any disease actually,only on that day..she suffocated then doctor said ‘its nothing dangerous’.but then its her time..yes.


Mama told me Abah cried ‘teresak2’..(Honestly, i never expect abah to cry.because he was a tough man..). He cried only in front of her..yes..not in front of us,of course.then Faiz-obviously, uncovered,, he cried loudly and told mama ‘che suuuu, faiz nak balik gak!!!!!!’ then,that is why we have to bring him along and let tasneem stayed at kisas..(at this moment Tasneem didnt know that mak tok has gone).. Abg jie also asking not to buried mak tok yet before he came..(but he didnt make it)


Actually,i really dont want to tell you like this but you dont online..so,to not let me to forget,i have to write.


I’m sorry again...