Friday, March 26, 2010

26 March 2010

Bang Ayman,,sorry

Friday,26 march 2010..

Misscalled –Abah: 2.15am
Incoming call-Abah :2.16 am
Called-Abah: 2.18 am

Shimah: Eyzzah,bangun..ada call



It was a bright sunny day on Friday evening, about a week after my 19th birthday. I was in a very quiet room, staring at her.Then something said to me

Watch her eyzzah..
As you are a doctor-to-be,seize that moment please!

Watch her eyzzah
As you have to learn someday, how to take someone bath

Watch her eyzzah
As you stared at her stiff body, unmoved only covered with a piece of kain batik

Watch her eyzzah
As you saw her son rub her face gently,lovingly... while water was running
everywhere on her body
And faiz also help rubbing her,but me?

Watch her eyzzah
While some makcik said “ gi tubik nu, tak leh wat kijo kalu ramai2 orang dalam bilek nih”

(But i still standing at a corner there ,ignoring the makcik)

Watch her eyzzah.....
As i saw her calm face,so fresh and full of tranquility

While my tears running down heavily.hand on mouth..(cant believe my eyes actually)..and i can do nothing but standing and staring.

A 4-year-old boy,looking at me..with his round eyes,like asking me “bakpo akak ni jerit?”

‘huh, apa tengok2?! Gi la main jaoh2’ (of course i only monologed)

I watched the process,from taking her bath until ‘kaffan’ing her. And i know now, how to handle this

Her son was so loyal.he involved in everything until she saved buried at tanah perkuburan islam teluk bayu.

She saved now abang ayman.i dont know how to tell you this but

Her son= Abah
She/her = mak tok....

Inna lillah hi wa inna illaihi raji’uun..........

Tok cik said that 2 weeks ago she dreamed almost every day about tok ayah,sleeping beside her at night then asking her to come with him.She said ‘ nanti la dulu..x sempat nak jumpa anak-beranak lagi’. But tok ayah replied ‘ tak yoh la jumpa,,ikut je la’. But she still continued her routine for 2 weeks before she really2 following him. Tok cik said, every day..she ate at tok cik’s house. She said ‘bakpo kalu ada adek beradek tapi x jumpa’..and she dont have any disease actually,only on that day..she suffocated then doctor said ‘its nothing dangerous’.but then its her time..yes.

Mama told me Abah cried ‘teresak2’..(Honestly, i never expect abah to cry.because he was a tough man..). He cried only in front of her..yes..not in front of us,of course.then Faiz-obviously, uncovered,, he cried loudly and told mama ‘che suuuu, faiz nak balik gak!!!!!!’ then,that is why we have to bring him along and let tasneem stayed at kisas..(at this moment Tasneem didnt know that mak tok has gone).. Abg jie also asking not to buried mak tok yet before he came..(but he didnt make it)

Actually,i really dont want to tell you like this but you dont,to not let me to forget,i have to write.

I’m sorry again...

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Father Forgets by W. Livingston Larned

Salam again!!

well,i got this from a book entitled "How to WIn friends and Influence People"..

It focus on how we dealt with other people and the core things are

1.understand others first before you judge him/her
2.look at his/her viewpoint
3.never underestimated others a good listener
5.praise a bit if he/she shows a slightest changes but dont flatter [as people notice our sincerity in our praise]
6.use courtesy and dont argue

and of course there are others!!! but i cant explain everything..hehehe

hear this story:-

Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw
crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your
damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few
minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave
of remorse swept over me. Guiltily I came to your bedside.
These are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I
scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your
face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning
your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things
on the floor.

At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You gulped down
your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too
thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for
my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, "Good-bye,
Daddy!" and I frowned, and said in reply, "Hold your Shoulders
Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I came up the
road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were
holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boy friends by
marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings were expensive—
and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine
that, son, from a father!

Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you
came in, timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I
glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption, you
hesitated at the door. "What is it you want?" I snapped.
You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and
threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small
arms tightened with an affection that God had set blooming in your
heart and which even neglect could not wither. And then you were
gone, pattering up the stairs.

Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my
hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit
been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding—this
was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that I did not love
you; it was that I expected too much of youth. It was measuring you
by the yardstick of my own years.
And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your
character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over
the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush
in and kiss me goodnight. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have
come to your bedside in the darkness, and I have knelt there,

It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these
things if I told them to you during your waking hours. But tomorrow
I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you
suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when
impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: "He is
nothing but a boy—a little boy!"

I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now,
son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby.
Yesterday you were in your mother's arms, your head on her
shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.

Monday, March 8, 2010

wHy HiJaB fOr WoMen?


this one, i got from my ukhti, syarifah zulaikha..
may Allah upgrade your understanding about hijab =D


Answer :

The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The ‘hijab’ or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the ‘subjugation’ of women under Islamic law.Before we analyze the reasoning behind the religiously mandated ‘hijab’, let us first study the status of women in societies before the advent of Islam.

1. In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust. The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of women in
earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied basic
human dignity:

a. Babylonian Civilization:

The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the
Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished,
his wife was put to death.

b. Greek Civilization:

Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient
civilizations.Under this very ‘glorious’ system, women were deprived
of all rights and were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an
‘imaginary woman’ called ‘Pandora’ is the root cause of misfortune of
human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior
to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in
high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual
perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst
all classes of Greek society.

c. Roman Civilization:

When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its ‘glory’, a man even had
the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were
common amongst the Romans.

d. Egyptian Civilization:

The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.

e. Pre-Islamic Arabia:

Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very
often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.

2. Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them
to maintain their status. Islam uplifted the status of women and
granted them their just rights 1400 years ago. Islam expects women to
maintain their status.

Hijab for men

People usually only discuss ‘hijab’ in the context of women. However,
in the Glorious Qur’an, Allah (swt) first mentions ‘hijab’ for men
before ‘hijab’ for the women. The Qur’an mentions in Surah Noor:

“Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and
guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them:
and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.”

[Al-Qur’an 24:30]

The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought
comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.

Hijab for women.

The next verse of Surah Noor, says:

“ And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze
and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and
ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should
draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to
their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons...”

[Al-Qur’an 24:31]

3. Six criteria for Hijab.

According to Qur’an and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for
observing hijab:

1. Extent:

The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered.
This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on
the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees.
For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete
body except the face and the hands up to the wrist. If they wish to,
they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist
that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of ‘hijab’.

All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.

2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.

3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see

4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the
opposite sex.

5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.

6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e.
they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols
of the unbelievers’ religions.

4. Hijab includes conduct and behaviour among other things.

Complete ‘hijab’, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes
the moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual.
A person only fulfilling the criteria of ‘hijab’ of the clothes is
observing ‘hijab’ in a limited sense.

‘Hijab’ of the clothes should be accompanied by ‘hijab’ of the eyes,
‘hijab’ of the heart, ‘hijab’ of thought and ‘hijab’ of intention.
It also includes the way a person walks, the way a person talks,
the way he behaves, etc.

5. Hijab prevents molestation

The reason why Hijab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an
in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab:

“O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that
they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad);
that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such)and not molested.
And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”

[Al-Qur’an 33:59]

The Qur’an says that Hijab has been prescribed for the women so that they are
recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.

6. Example of twin sisters

Suppose two sisters who are twins, and who are equally beautiful,
walk down the street. One of them is attired in the Islamic hijab i.e.
the complete body is covered, except for the face and the hands up
to the wrists. The other sister is wearing western clothes, a mini skirt
or shorts. Just around the corner there is a hooligan or ruffian who is
waiting for a catch, to tease a girl. Whom will he tease?
The girl wearing the Islamic Hijab or the girl wearing the skirt or the mini?

Naturally he will tease the girl wearing the skirt or the mini.
Such dresses are an indirect invitation to the opposite sex for teasing
and molestation. The Qur’an rightly says that hijab prevents women from being molested.

7. Capital punishment for the rapists

Under the Islamic shariah, a man convicted of having raped a woman, is
given capital punishment. Many are astonished at this ‘harsh’ sentence.
Some even say that Islam is a ruthless, barbaric religion! I have asked
a simple question to hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose, God forbid,
someone rapes your wife, your mother or your sister. You are made the
judge and the rapist is brought in front of you.
What punishment would you give him? All of them said they would put
him to death. Some went to the extent of saying they would torture
him to death. To them I ask, if someone rapes your wife or your mother
you want to put him to death. But if the same crime is committed on
somebody else’s wife or daughter you say capital punishment is barbaric.
Why should there be double standards?

8. Western society falsely claims to have uplifted women

Western talk of women’s liberalization is nothing but a disguised
form of exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation
of her honour.Western society claims to have ‘uplifted’ women.
On the contrary,it has actually degraded them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies who are mere tools in the hands of
pleasure seekers and sex marketeers, hidden behind the colourful screen of
‘art’ and ‘culture’.

9. USA has one of the highest rates of rape

United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced
countries of the world. It also has one of the highest rates of rape in
any country in the world. According to a FBI report, in the year 1990,
every day on an average 1756 cases of rape were committed in U.S.A alone.
Later another report said that on an average everyday 1900 cases of rapes
are committed in USA. The year was not mentioned.
May be it was 1992 or 1993. May be the Americans got ‘bolder’ in
the following years.

Consider a scenario where the Islamic hijab is followed in America. Whenever
a man looks at a woman and any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his
mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic hijab, that is the
complete body is covered except the face and the hands upto the wrist.
Afterthis if any man commits rape he is given capital punishment. I ask you,
in such a scenario, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain
the same, or will it decrease?

10. Implementation of Islamic Shariah will reduce the rate of rapes.
Naturally as soon as Islamic Shariah is implemented positive results will be inevitable. If Islamic Shariah is implemented in any part of the world,
whether it is America or Europe, society will breathe easier. Hijab does
not degrade a woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.

Copy and Paste :ILUVISLAM

P/S : This article is quite dont get boring to read this..
Believe me, it may wider and correct your view on hijab . And you will
realize how beautiful this religion,Allah SWT 's religion,that totally
complete and considerable for humans necessary.
Subhanallah Walhamdulillah..

What important is, we should adapt our intention on covering the aurah only
because of Allah The Almighty,its not because we are following the others
or just because of 'kawan aku pakai,aku pakai la' or 'bese la,trend..'
Through this, InsyaAllah you will find the feeling of closeness to Allah whenever,wherever, whoever you are..


"It is you worship Allah as if you are seeing Him.For though
you see Him not, verily He is seeing you"


Assalamualaikum again!!

Its been a long time since i posted my own entry,,huh..

so now, im going to shout out my opinion about time

one day, my family and i were going back home from our village in besut,terengganu..
on the way back,my mom said...[actually she was talking about something but i didnt remember..ok, continued]..


ehem..ehem... i think..i think.. sape yang makan cili, terasa pedasnye...eheehheheh,,
these phrase hit me quite well ...hehe

well, the thing is,,why on earth they are not creating MESIN PENGESAN BARANG????!!
i kept having 'lost and found' sceneSS in may daily life..huhu

you know, we take quite a lot of time to search thing...and if we cant find it, we never feel satisfied up till we find it.. so this required a lot of time...

what do you think you can do with the time being??? [if we not losing something]

you know the answers =D

hmmm, let me see...
i have spending 1/2 of my life, searching for:-

my sock! my watches! my spectacle!
-i just buy the new one / i be more organized!

my valuable time with my family
-i make time with them

my youth!
-i just ignore it / i be like a kid back

my friends!
-i make new friends / i contact my old friends, and foster my friendship.

my happiness,
-then i go out and tried to find it / i do a research in order to find it

my education!
-then i study more and more and more

my tranquility!
-then i hear soft music and go sightseeing / i do amal soleh like looking to my parent's face or kaabah

-then i tried new things a lot / i do a lot more muhasabah

my 'islamic' soul!
-then i go to hear kuliah / i befriend with ulama'

[pssst...'i' is also referring to you]

So, we do search a lot of things in our life..

and how you search your lost??? its up to you though....
but be careful...

Above all,all our doings in this life are actually to search for redho Allah..

So, gudluck!!!!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Saya teringat kepada perempuan-perempuan itu…

Jul 29th,
oleh: Hilal Asyraf

Source: 2009http://ms.langitila teringat- kepada-perempuan -perempuan- itu%e2%80% a6/

Perempuan-perempuan yang dilupakan...

Perempuan-perempuan yang dilupakan...

Hari ini saya teringat kepada beberapa orang perempuan.


Siapakah yang saya teringat itu?

Perempuan-perempuan ini, ada yang saya kenal masa tadika. Ada pula yang saya kenal masa sekolah rendah. Ada pula yang saya kenal masa sekolah menengah.

Apabila saya dewasa, saya berusaha memeriksa latar belakang perempuan-perempuan ini, dan mengkaji kehidupan mereka. Mudah cerita, saya suka dengan perempuan-perempuan ini sebenarnya. Pada saya, mereka amat bermakna dalam kehidupan saya.

Oleh kerana saya teringat akan mereka, maka saya ingin perkenalkan mereka kepada kalian.

Perempuan-perempuan ini, adalah perempuan-perempuan yang dilupakan.

Hari ini, perempuan melihat kepada siapa untuk mereka contohi?

Hari ini, lelaki akan memilih perempuan yang bagaimana untuk dijadikan isteri?

Hari ini, ibu bapa akan membesarkan anak perempuan mereka mengikut perempuan yang mana?

Hari ini, masyarakat akan mengangungkan perempuan yang bagaimana?

Hari ini, perempuan jenis apakah yang dikira sebagai mulia?

Hari ini, perempuan bagaimanakah yang lelaki puja?

Persoalan ini, anda boleh jawab sendiri di dalam hati, dengan melihat keadaan sekeliling kita. Anda akan melihat satu jawapan yang sama, walau di mana sahaja anda berada. Perempuan jenis ‘itu’. ‘Itu’ itu anda terjemahkan sendiri dengan pengamatan anda pada keadaan hari ini.

Kita lihat hari ini, masyarakat, baik lelaki atau perempuan, orang tua atau anak-anak, telah melupakan sebahagian perempuan-perempuan agung yang sepatutnya dijadikan contoh, qudwah untuk wanita-wanita seluruh dunia, sepanjang zaman. Sesungguhnya, figur-figur inilah yang mengusung panji ISLAM dalam kehidupan, seterusnya memuliakan diri mereka dengan kalimah ALLAH SWT.

Maka hari ini, saya nak memperingati perempuan-perempuan yang dilupakan oleh ummah ini.

Ramai manusia sudah melupakan Ummul Mukminin Khadijah binti Khuwailid. Dialah yang digelar Afifah Solehah(wanita suci). Seorang wanita yang sanggup berkorban segala kekayaannya untuk membantu dakwah Rasulullah SAW. Dialah yang paling pertama beriman, tanpa meragukan seruan Rasulullah SAW. Dialah wanita, yang menenangkan suaminya yang ketakutan tanpa memperlekehkan. Dialah wanita, yang tegar bertahan susah senang bersama suaminya, sehingga nyawa ditarik ALLAH SWT. Bayangkan, dia adalah seorang yang kaya raya, hartawan, tetapi sanggup dipulau bersama Rasulullah SAW selama 3 tahun 3 bulan dan makan pucuk kayu sahaja hingga pecah-pecah mulut.

Ramai juga terlupa dengan Fatimah Az-Zahrah binti Rasulullah SAW. Dialah yang bertahan di sisi Rasulullah SAW ketika ayahandanya itu diseksa teruk. Tanpa kecewa, tanpa rasa hendak berputus asa, dia sentiasa membantu ayahandanya yang sering disakiti.
Tangannya yang bersih dan suci itulah yang mencuci najis yang dibalingkan ke tubuh ayahandanya. Tangannya yang suci itulah yang membersihkan segala luka ayahandanya.
Seorang wanita yang tabah, kuat menempuhi segala dugaan.

Ramai yang telah terlupa akan seorang wanita bernama Asiah. Dia adalah isteri kepada Firaun yang menentang Musa. ALLAH telah menjadikan bicara lembutnya menyelamatkan
Musa as dari dibunuh Firaun. ALLAH juga menjadikan dia antara yang beriman dengan seruan Musa as. Malah, ALLAH telah merakamkan namanya di dalam Al-Quran, dan menjanjikan kepadanya syurga atas balasan ketabahannya dalam mengharungi hidup bersama Firaun dan menerima segala seksaannya dalam mengekalkan deen ISLAM dalam dirinya.

Ramai pula yang tidak tahu berkenaan Masyitah. Dia adalah tukang penyisir rambut anak Firaun. Beriman kepada Allah SWT dan Nabi Musa, kemudian keimanannya diketahui oleh Firaun. Akhirnya dia bersama suami, serta anaknya yang masih bayi telah dicampakkan ke dalam kuali penuh minyak mendidih. Walaupun nyawa di hujung tanduk, imannya tidak tergadai, malah terjun dengan penuh keyakinan. Masyitah mati syahid mempertahankan imannya dari digadai.

Ramai juga yang telah terlupa kepada Si Suci Mayram, ibu kepada Isa as. Sang Perawan itu menjaga dirinya, mengabdikan diri dalam bilik yang terkunci, ALLAH memuliakannya dengan memilih Zakaria as sebagai penjaga. Maryam yang suci inilah dipilih ALLAH untuk mengandungkan Isa as. Apabila dia melahirkan Isa as dan ditohmah dengan pelbagai dugaan, dia bergantung kepada ALLAH, dan bersangka baik atas segala apa yang berlaku ke atasnya. Akhirnya anaknya Isa as boleh berbicara dan menyeru manusia sedari buaian.

Siapakah yang hendak mencontohi Nusaibah RAH? Ketika Perang Uhud, Nusaibah keluar memberi minum kepada pasukan Muslimin yang kehausan dan merawat mereka yang mendapat luka. Apabila tentera Islam menjadi terdesak dan lari dari medan perang, cuma ada seratus orang sahaja yang tetap bertahan dan Nusaibah adalah salah seorang yang menghunuskan pedang serta memakai perisai bagi melindungi Rasulullah dari diserang musuh.

Kesungguhan Nusaibah melindungi Rasulullah begitu hebat, hinggakan Rasulullah berkata, “Aku tidak menoleh ke kiri dan ke kanan kecuali melihat Ummu Imarah (Nusaibah) berperang dihadapanku.”

Ketika itu, anaknya Abdullah luka parah ditikam musuh. Dia mengikat luka anaknya lalu berkata, “Bangun wahai anakku.” Anaknya itu terus bangun dan melawan tentera musuh.

Rasulullah yang melihat peristiwa itu bersabda. “Wahai Ummu Imarah, siapakah yang mampu berbuat seperti mana yang engkau lakukan?”

Ketika tentera musuh yang menikam anaknya itu menghampiri, Rasulullah berkata kepadanya, “Ini dia orang yang telah melukakan anakmu.” Nusaibah menghampiri orang itu dan menikam betisnya dengan pedang.

“Ya, Ummu Imarah! Engkau berjaya membalasnya,” kata Rasulullah sambil tersenyum melihat kesungguhan Nusaibah Hatta Rasulullah SAW pun bersorak untuknya. Siapakah yanng mengingati Ummu Imarah ini?

Siapakah pula yang hendak menjadi seperti Ummu Sulaim? Dia berkahwin dengan Abu Talhah dengan mahar iman. Abu Talhah seorang kafir ketika itu, jatuh hati kepada Ummu Sulaim yang masih muslim. Ummu Sulaim berkata: “Jika hendak mengahwiniku, maka maharnya adalah iman”.

Maka islamlah Abu Talhah. Sehingga ada sahabat yang berkata, “Aku belum pernah melihat seorang wanita sama sekali yang lebih mulia maskawinnya dibandingkan dengan maskawin Ummu Sulaim.”

Malah, dia mentarbiyyah suaminya, sehingga suaminya menjadi seorang sahabat yang komited. Siapa yang tidak kenal dengan Abu Talhah? Dialah yang menyambut semua panahan yang ditujukan kepada Rasulullah SAW, pada hari Uhud dengan belakang tubuhnya. Lihatlah bagaiman Ummu Sulaim mentarbiyyah suaminya? Adakah lagi isteri yang sebegitu hari ini?

Siapakah pula yang mengingati isteri kedua Rasulullah SAW? Ummu Salamah.
Bagaimana cerdiknya dia, bijaknya dia sehinggakan dia menjadi penasihat yang baik kepada Rasulullah SAW. Ketika peristiwa Perjanjian Hudaibiyyah, apabila Rasulullah mengarahkan semua sahabat-sahabatnya menyembelih haiwan dan bercukur rambut, tiada seorang pun yang bangkit menyahut arahannya. Rasulullah SAW hairan, lantas kembali ke khemah, lalu berkata di hadapan Ummu Salamah, “ Kenapakah berlaku begitu?” Ummu Salamah berkata, “ Jangan kau hiraukan mereka, cukurlah rambutmu, dan sembelihlah haiwanmu” Bila Rasulullah SAW melakukan, semua sahabat mengikuti.

Siapakah pula yang hendak mencontohi isteri Rasulullah SAW, Aisyah RA? Ketika peristiwa Hadith Ifki(kisah rekaan) berlaku, menumpahkan fitnah ke atasnya, mengotorkan namanya, dia tetap teguh, yakin kepada ALLAH SWT. Tiada sebentar pun dia bersangka buruk kepada ALLAH SWT bila ditimpa dugaan.

Siapakah pula yang mengingati Asma’ binti Abu Bakr? Dia digelar Zat An-Nitaqain kerana mengoyakkan tali pinggangnya kepada dua untuk membawa makanan kepada Rasulullah SAW dan bapanya Abu Bakr RA ketika persembunyian di Gua Thur. Dialah juga yang dilempang oleh Abu Jahal sehingga tercabut subang di telinganya, kerana tidak mahu memberitahu posisi Rasulullah SAW dan bapanya ketika hijrah. Dialah juga yang mentarbiyyah anaknya, Abdullah Ibn Zubair RA, sehingga menjadi seorang sahabat
Rasulullah SAW yang berani.

Siapakah pula yang ingat kepada Khansa? Dia mempunyai empat orang anak. Dia mentarbiyyah empat orang anaknya dengan baik. Apabila mendapat seruan jihad, dihantarnya anaknya yang sulung. Anak sulungnya syahid. Dihantar pula yang kedua.
Yang kedua juga syahid. Dihantar pula yang ketiga. Yang ketiga juga syahid. Begitu jugalah juga dia menghantar anaknya yang keempat, dan yang keempat itu pun syahid.

Akhirnya dia menangis. Orang berkata, “ Khansa kesedihan kerana kehilangan semua anaknya” Tetapi tahukah kalian apakah jawapannya?

“ Diamlah kalian, sesungguhnya aku bersedih kerna aku tidak punya anak lagi untuk dihantar berjihad di jalan ALLAH”

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